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Milestone: I’m seeing double

It looks like we have tooth #2.  Well, almost anyways.  I couldn’t feel it last night but I could totally see it.  If it’s not poking out today I’ll be really surprised.

It’s hard to get a good look.  I don’t like sticking my finger in there.  As soon as I do he clamps down as hard as he can.  So instead I try to convince him just to open his mouth but he just sticks out his tongue.

I checked our memory book and E didn’t receive her first tooth until she was nearly 1.  Just a couple weeks before her first birthday.  She had been teething since September that year.  It took her nearly 5 months.  C has been drooling up a storm since May.

Milestone: C is for Clapping

On Saturday I noticed something new, C was clapping his hands.  I thought maybe it was something random but Sunday & Monday he kept clapping away.  The memory book has it listed as a milestone so that’s what it must be.  Go lil C.  Oh, the memory book.  That wasn’t really on my list of things to do before, but now it is.  I’ve been keeping up on dates but I need to get some more pix in there too.  And that reminds me, I need to get to the store and pick up some scrapbooks.  Cari was awesome at doing that.  I printed out the pictures but now I need to get ’em in a book.  I’m sure I’ll be able to find the time 😉

In the meantime, while C is clapping up a storm, E begged me to watch some video on the camera.  She’s a big fan of expensive technology.  She’s already mastered the digital camera so now it’s on to video. 

Digital camera’s are one thing…my video camera is another.  We’ve gone through three digital ones in as many years.  A single drop and they’re pretty much a loss.  So how different is it to put it in my daughters hands; it’s eventually going to break anyways.  Plus this olympus kind of sucks anyways (i wouldn’t recommend it).   On the other hand the canon we had, which we really liked, was dropped on carpet and stopped working immediately.  It’s just as much to fix the damn thing as it is to buy new.  I could throw a disposable across the room and it would still work, but not the $400 digital … wtf!  We were going to buy a new one b4 C was born but just didn’t have the xtra $$.

Anyways, so E is interested in watching our video.  I have more than 2 years of it…2+ years of memories, 2+ years of Cari.  I wish I had more but we only bought it right b4 E was born.

We’ve actually scanned through many of the videos over the past week.  But this weekend we came upon a particularly special one.  It was E two years ago almost to date.  Just about 7 months old and basically the same age as C today.  She was in the tub taking a bath with Mommy.  We watched the whole thing.  It wasn’t easy.  I’m so glad I have it, but it (they) is one of the toughest thing to do.  To relive the memory.  It was a good one though.  It also reminded me that it’s time to get the camera rollin for C.  So that night I took him and the camera into the bathroom and attempted to tape.  I think it turned out well.  But he’s new to sitting up on his own so keeping him from falling into the water while taping wasn’t that easy.  However, now that I think of it he’s never fallen over in the water but I’m always on edge waiting for it to happen. 

I was in the tub at first but then E insisted she come in too.  She climbed in herself, obviously no longer needing my assistance … YIKES!  I guess that means one more thing I need to worry about; getting into and out of the tub without me.  Before I had that protective barrier and knew she’d be in that same place…not any more though.  So now it’s E, C & me in the tub.  It’s a bigger tub but not that big.  I got some good footage while we were all in there but then I got out and was able to take some of the two of them together.  Super cute too! 

She’s an awesome big sister.  I imagine it’s extremely beneficial that they have each other.

A new bedtime ritual

We’re attempting a new ritual anyways

Before our world got turned completely upside down, we had our bedtime rituals pretty much down pat.  Ever since though it’s been tough to get back into any sort of constant routine.  I really need one just so I can get some me time before I pass out from pure exhaustion

But I think we might be close

As long as we are at home I’m able to enforce some sort of normal series of events.  Here’s where we’re at.

When it’s dark outside, that means it’s time to start thinking about bed.  I don’t know how daylight savings is going to impact that though.  I haven’t been able to eliminate the bottle yet so I’m using it to instill this semi-consistent routine.  Before we get a bottle we must do a few things.  Brush our teeth and go potty (we’re trying our best to get on the potty).  And then we get to read 2-3 books at the same time as the bottle.  Every so often after putting E into bed I have to make up some excuse about something else I have to do in order to leave the room without much complaint.  However, when I finally leave she’s usually out within a few minutes. 

Hopefully this means we’re making a little progress.  Although I would give anything to go back to May 19th and put everything back to the way it was supposed to be.

Legal Docs

It’s one of those things that Cari & I never got to.  Why did we need to, right?  I guess, you have each other and you assume that nothing will happen, why would it…but then it does.

We didn’t put anything in place to define our wishes, so after many different opinions about what to do and who to talk to and a wide range of prices, I went with someone a friend recently used.  It seemed to be everything I needed and wasn’t close to some of the most pricey quotes. 

I had to answer a few difficult ‘who’ questions like who would care for the kids.  It wasn’t easy.  I believe I made the best decision.  Let’s just hope it never becomes an issue.  But as I have so unfortunately learned, even when things are perfect, nothing is guaranteed.  I hope, and I’m sure they have, that our friends now know that too.  That as unlikely it is, bull shit happens, and it’s better to be prepared (somewhat anyways). 

I wonder what the difference is between the price and service I received and the price and service some of these other lawyers offered.  It all sounded the same.  In the end I have some legal docs that specify my wishes.  These are the same forms that can be found on legal zoom, so what else comes with the higher prices?  Nothing, probably…maybe a nicer office.

A 2-year molar or a cold?

I hope it’s not the latter. 

The crazy amazing thing is that E can actually tell us what’s going on.  Whereas in the past we would have to guess at the issue, she’s specifically telling us that her mouth hurts.  The other day it was her left side and this morning it was her right.  So the best guess is that it’s a molar or two.  She didn’t get her last eye tooth until she was 2 and 4 months old.  So we’re still waiting for all the molars.  I suppose this means that she’ll have stronger teeth but I wish they would just come in.

Of course if it is the latter…that won’t be any fun.  But it’s bound to happen at some point.  Does this mean we should skip the two b-day parties we are planning to go to this weekend??  It’s the worst when there’s one or two kids at those things that are sick and they end up getting the rest of the kids sick.  Is that going to be us this time?  And that also means that I need to go out and get some b-day presents for them today?  Wonder what I should get?  I’m thinking clothes for the girl because they have a house full of toys already and maybe a toy for the boy.