Kids

Saturday was jam packed with Lil Kickers, the Cubs v Reds game, and Venetian Night.  Sunday was Dana’s BBQ and the Taste of Lincoln.  We had to skip Jen’s b-day party because it would have been way too much.

It was little C’s first Cubs game.  They always seem to be scheduled during somebodies nap time but we made the trip anyways.  E has been to probably a dozen games so far so we definitely had to get him to his first. 

He spent most of the game staring at some guy two rows behind us.  But we still got plenty of smiles and pictures of him.  Because of lil kickers we arrived in the middle of the 2nd but that sorta helped because that meant the kids would hopefully make it to the 9th.  About 4 months ago we taught E to sing Go Cubs Go and were actually lucky enough one day to record it (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNFirWtL99U).  It’s just one of the songs that I would sing to her.  Just at random times but she quickly picked up on it.  Saturday was the first time she got to hear it in person.  Go Cubs!

It’s been a few weeks since we last went out on Mike’s boat.  It wasn’t really by choice, per se, but rather because the Chicago weather has been bordering on cold.  It’s barely averaged above 80 and it’s mid-July.  Saturday was also Venetian night and he really wanted to take the boat to the city.  Earlier in the day the water was completely calm but by the time we got out there the winds had picked up and a few showers passed by.  We saw yet another rainbow…like the 10th rainbow this month.  Once we got down there, despite the wind and waves on the way, the skyline was beautiful and there were a ton of boats down there.  We parked by Monroe harbor.  There were these three boats that were tied together and had a disco ball and dance lights flashing…looked like fun.  Venetian night isn’t anything too crazy; just some jazzed up boats and fireworks but the fireworks were very impressive.  We were parked a little too far away to see the boat parade but we had music and drinks so we weren’t complaining.  And the fireworks were almost on top of us.

Sunday was another busy one.  Originally we were just going to go to Dana’s BBQ at her Condo near the gold coast but then we found out about Taste of Lincoln and then there was also J’s b-day at Arlington Race Course.  Unfortunately we had to pass on the latter but I wish we could have done all of them.

Dana’s place was nice.  She has a pool on the rooftop and of course Ellie wanted to go swimming.  Did I mention that it’s been a cold summer.  And we were already swimming earlier in Grandma’s pool.  I’m not sure which one was colder.  She seems oblivious to it though.  She just has so much fun in there.  I can never say no.  I guess they had Jorie in there b4 we got there and she was loving it too and wanted no part in getting out.

I was told that our little E has an amazing vocabulary.  Does she really?  I mean there’s not a whole lot she can’t say.  I can’t even keep track of all her works and her sentences are getting complex.  I think she’s smart but it’s awesome to hear that come from someone else, especially someone who works with kids and speech issues.

By 5 or so we got ready to head to the Taste of Lincoln.  We’ve had plenty of crazy years there in the past (I’ll have to add some of those pictures later).  I missed one recent year because of training camp but the last few years have been a little tamer with the kids and this year was about the same.

I was having a bit of a difficult weekend up to this point.  After venetian night we went to the horseshoe casino; the last, and I think only time, I was there was with Cari.  I went to the bathroom on Saturday by myself.  It’s kind of in a remote location by the concert venue (the place we went to see the Smashing Pumpkins).  As I walked to the bathroom I vividly remembers waiting there for Cari to come out of the bathroom.  I’m pretty sure she was wearing a jean jacket.  The night of the concert we brought a camera with and for some reason they wouldn’t let camera’s into the venue so (with Cari pregnant) I had to run back to the car (like 2 miles away) and make it back in time for the show.  Anyways, I couldn’t believe how such a simple event had such a significant impact on me.

So that was Saturday and now it’s Sunday.  Even though the sisters are with me, I am pretty much 100% responsible for the two kiddies that I have with me.  The Taste of Lincoln isn’t really that kid-friendly of an event either.  It’s already packed and by the last two bands of the night most people are rather intoxicated (our group included).  Plus there was a day cubs game so you have some people from that place there as well.  And did I say it’s PACKED?  It’s not easy trying to maneuver a double stroller through 1000 people…slightly intoxicated people at that.  Plus even though it wasn’t extremely warm, it became humid and the breeze totally died.  So that, plus the kids, and me feeling overwhelmed didn’t add up to an ideal situation.  Then, of all things, and I guess somewhat expected, I ran into some people I knew. 

I knew it would happen.  We frequented the local band scene for years so even though having the kids and moving to the burbs meant less nights out, it was only a matter of time before I saw familiar faces.  So they say to me, how ‘ya doing?  And I have to immediately ask if they ‘know’.  And they knew.  But then I found out that one of my even closer friends from the past was in the crowd and wanted to see me.  But the kids were crying, I was a mess, and I needed to feed the damn meter…meter’s on a Sunday at 8pm (WTF Chicago).  Anyways, I told them I’d wait to see here but I couldn’t stay because I had to feed the meter. 

On the way back from feeding the meter I had to piss so bad.  So all this crap is going on, both kids are crying, and I have to find somewhere to go.  I said screw it and headed for the nearest alley.  Of course it’s still light out though so I had to search out a somewhat hidden spot and told myself if the cops came that I’d probably have one solid excuse.  At least that’s what I told myself.  Fortunately they didn’t come. 

When I got back to the fest they let us in back stage.  It probably seemed unusual to have little kids back there but maybe that’s expected seeing that most of us long-time fans are all getting to that stage in life.  But back stage meant more people that I hadn’t seen.  One of the girls didn’t say anything too meaningful but kept saying how beautiful the kids were.  I turned into a mess, but whatever, right??? Ellie had a blast with all the people…dancing all over the place.  And a bunch of people held Carson.  He’s a ham. He just smiles at anyone.  He rocks and all the people that were there rocked!  While it wasn’t the easiest time, it certainly was nice to see a bunch of friends.

We finally got back to the car.  It was late and she was tired.  We should have left earlier.  I needed my driving partner with me but she was more concerned about hanging out with people and drinking than helping me get home…thanks, btw!  And then I found out that I didn’t have E’s nukie with me.  Oh man, that’s like the end of the world of course.  I had an extra but it was C’s.  For some crazy reason she wouldn’t use it.  It looks a little different so our little brainiac knew the difference and wanted nothing to do with it.  We had about a 45 minute drive home and it took her about 30 of those minutes to finally calm down.  Oh well, we made it and have plenty of fun pictures to look back on.  We all survived.

E’s a picky eater, always has been.  She loves the basics so when we finally get something new in her mouth it’s a big success.  We had to use some motivation though … you can play with grandma’s ipod and we’ll take you to the park, but it worked and today was the first day for raspberries. 

C has successfully moved on to veggies; green beans.  It’s the first food he tried since we introduced oatmeal a couple weeks ago.  It’s a relief that he picked up on eating with such ease.

We spent a number of days at the house last week, leaving barely any free time … let alone time to write.

The first day wasn’t incredibly difficult.  Both kids went down relatively easy and C even slept for about 9 hours.  The second wasn’t quite so simple.  C woke up at midnight, E at 2, C at 6:30 and E at 7:30.  But we got in the house and hopefully we’re making some progress.  I think E really needs to be here.  It’s quieter and all her toys are here.  It’s a break that I think we both need.

Of course I wish I didn’t have to work so that I could just take care of them all the time.

I need a bike seat and trailer.  I need to do some more research on brands and I’m not sure if I’m overly excited about a trailer, but I think they would help me get out of the house.